I've been trying to be patience with Cedric by not screaming at him when he did wrong. Instead, I talk to him nicely and slowly to try and make him understand that wat he did was wrong. It seems like my efforts paid off. I'm trying to convince Colin to do the same. I dun like to have all the bitterness within the family. Children should grow up in an environment where there are no hostility within.
Today is a good day. Cedric wakes up without the crying, brushes his teeth and bathed without fussing. And all this was done in less than 30 mins instead of the usual 1hr. But just as i was thinking all this is good, the rain comes. haiz...
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Friday, October 31, 2008
Growing Pain
Back after 1 week.. a progress for me. But sad to say I'm here to complain again.
My son dearest.... not really sure wat can be done about him. His bad tempers has escalated and so has everyone elses in the family.
Cedric simply refuses to do the things accordingly as told. Refusing to slp, eat, bath, wake up and go to school. I understand why he is unable to wake up on time for sch is due to the fact that he slps ard 12am in the nite. though he is very tired, he just wans to carry on playing or watch tv. Oh oh... we tried to off the tv of cuz... but i doubt anyone can endure the screaming of my son in the middle of the nite. mind u...there's neighbours who thinks we are ill-treating my son... Main objective is to stop him from crying. He'll watch tv and slp. And u'll know he's seriously tired when he ask u to pat him to slp.
Every morn is another rd of battle. Trying to wake him up w/o making him cry. cuz once he starts, he nv stops. then, we hv to coax him to bath(he handpicks ppl to help him bath). Then its off to sch. Once he is off to sch, that's the time for me to head for the bed again.
Anyone has any ideas hw to help me with this situation... ? my parents are only more than happy to give in to Cedric's request as long as he doesnt cry but to me, they are pampering him. I cant ask them to leave the discipline to me cuz if they get all upset, they will threaten us (which is very often) to find our own caregiver. I'm open to suggestions... really...
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Thursday, October 23, 2008
Super Tots
Last nite SuperTots were on Channel 8, and my dear son was featured in it. He went for the competition but din manage to get into the Top 8(anyway, we were all tired and cant wait to go hm).
The experiance was not so good for myself as it was a whole day event. But clearly, Cedric seems to enjoy himself. When i manage to get the clip from Colin then I'll upload onto the site.
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Monday, July 28, 2008
Terrible 2
it is said that when children comes to the age of 2, they'll become terrible to handle. I guess it's really true. Cedric has really become a handful at hm. Well, i know some of you will say he is well behaved...but ironically, he only mis-behaves at home.
He does like to take his dinner. when ever it's dinner time he'll say that he's slpy. but when we try to get him to slp, he doesnt want to. I guess he's lazy to chew he's food...cuz he prefers to drink milk instead. He'll chu pattern...rub his eyes, pretend to be slpy then fold his arms on the table and rest his head on his arms. only at the sight of the cane does he start to chew his food.
i think he also very rebellious. the more u tell him not to do a certain thing, the more he'll wanna try. he'll 'test water' first. try to see wat's the limit to our tolerance. sometimes really feel like *urgh*!! hahaha!! dunno wat to say so fill in the blanks urself.
anyway that's all i can think of for nw. till nxt time~!
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Saturday, May 03, 2008
Baby's first walk
the clip that i promised to post a long long time ago.
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Wednesday, December 19, 2007
My big drama baby
haha...Cedric has grown up very well and tall... his average percentile for is height is 75%...he is really tall for his age...wonder if he'll grow up like his Uncle Sam. Fingers crossed there....
this boy of mine is very demanding, selfish/self-centered. doesn't like to share his stuff..worst of all, he is very disobedient. if i were to slap him on his hands, he'll slap me back....not sure hw to discipline him. Please...all who still read this blog, when u see my son please dun pamper him anymore....he has got enough pampering from his grandparents.
when we take away anything from him and he cant get it back, he'll fall to the floor(theatrical manner) and start to fake cry....if u see it u'll laugh...hope i'm able to get a video clip of it soon...
nw that my sis is also preggy and hving a ger....i wonder hw cedric will react to this cousin of his? I heard from my mom tat cedric is a bully in school. there's new 18th month old bb ger that came to the centre and i head that cedric is bullying her cuz he pounce onto her and refuse to get up...OMG!! worst still, he is a "Ti Koh Pek" he peek at the bb ger when she is changing the diaper...i also heard that he peeks under the door when his teacher is in the toilet....haha...i really dunno wat to do with this son of mine...
if anyone hv any advice, please let me know. thankz
